Usually I love where I live. I love living near the beach. But today, today I decided I was mad at my community. I was dropping Victor off at school and saying goodbye to the kids. As I walked out, I noticed a family was leaving the school. The director was talking to them and saying goodbye. It happened to be one of Victor's good little friends from summer pre-school. And though they are no longer in the same class, they play together on the playground all the time. It was one of Victor's first pre-school friends.
So I waited by the door to say good-bye and see where they were off to. I knew that they are a military family and would eventually be deployed...As I spoke to the mom, she confirmed that her husband had been deployed and that they were leaving. She didn't know exactly where she and the kids were going, but they were definitely moving. Well, I meant to give her my best and tell her that Victor would miss his friend a great deal. Instead, tears start pouring out of my eyes?!
I apologized and tried to explain that I have family in the service and friends who have moved away due to being in the service. BLAH, BLAH, BLAH...I felt like such a dork. I'm still trying to figure out my reaction. Either I am pregnant or I really am starting to feel the impact of living in a community where you make friends and then they leave you. Yes, I know that they are in the military and that means that they are going to move away sooner rather than later. But somehow I keep forgetting that.
I always imagined that Victor would grow up with the same friends that he went to in elementary school. But it is becoming quite clear to me that living near a military base means that a huge part of the people we meet are military families who are going to move away. I don't like that. Stop leaving us!!
So although I keep saying that I will not be friends with you military wives anymore, I keep meeting you and keep enjoying your company. So please don't laugh at me when I start to cry when you are telling me that you will be leaving soon. It just means that you mean a lot to me.